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How does a long trip become short?

We live 30 minutes outside of Nashville but I avoid driving there as much as I can. The trip is too long and feels like an obstacle.

Every year we drive 16 hours to South Dakota to visit family and on our way north we drive through Nashville.

But on our South Dakota trip it never feels like an inconvenience to drive to Nashville. It’s almost forgettable compared to the longer journey.

Where else in life do things feel like they’re taking a long time but if we had the perspective that it was just a small part of a larger journey, it would be almost forgettable?

Perspective is a gift. Have a long perspective. It makes big obstacles small.

The new Star Wars movie is horrible (no spoilers)

That’s what many of the professional reviewers have said. Almost half actually.

The problem with those reviewers is that they didn’t have a 11 year old son who they wanted to see a fun movie with. I did. They didn’t have a day where they really needed an escape for a few hours. I did.

They aren’t you or me.

The days of someone telling you what movie is good our bad are over. I can make my own decision, thanks.

Where else in your life do you need to decide on your own what is good or bad?

The masses can be wrong, very wrong.

It was awesome by the way. Video proof below.

What you control

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If all you did today was to focus on the things you can actually control you’d keep yourself busy.

It turns out focusing on things you can’t control is not only fruitless, but it can also make you miserable.

It’s your choice.

There are rules! (but not really)

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We sat in the school library waiting for the ceremony to start. 80 adults and 20 middle schoolers sitting in silence because we were in a library.

If we were in the gym we’d be talking to each other but we were in the library and in the library you don’t talk.

There are rules

The first reason we don’t speak up, write, make a video, or put our work into the world is we are afraid of being corrected.

The second reason we don’t speak up is there are rules. Rules like “no talking in the library”.

But that’s not always a rule.

Ignore the rules

Here’s a rule about rules and creating.

If the rule is holding you back, ignore it for a while.

You can go back and follow the rule later but for now, ignore it.

  • Don’t optimize your headline
  • Don’t optimize your SEO
  • Don’t worry about your word count
  • Don’t add a cute picture
  • Don’t create a lead magnet
  • Don’t install 12 recommended plugins

You will never get better until you start.

You will never be known until you put your work into the world.

You will never be satisfied until you know you’ve done something brave.

What rules do you need to ignore so that you can create? Here’s the secret. They’re not really rules. If they were then I’d be in jail. They’re made up. They’re helpful sometimes but there’s no police force for creators.

Ignore the rules you are using as excuses to not create.

Make something, now.